Productive parenting when you’re the one with ADHD
One client says the hardest thing about parenting with ADHD is that the symptoms are invisible. Other people think she’s just a bad parent.
Your ADHD treasures
We all make choices in life. If you have ADHD, one of your choices is deciding if you’re going to view the condition as a liability—or as an asset.
Anxiety in today’s world
Many women come into my office feeling anxious. That’s because life is complicated, and complications provoke anxieties. From social relationships to work obligations to effective parenting, it’s all hard.
Time to make a change
“I want to change.” People say it all the time, but these same people often find themselves repeating the same loop over and over. Why? Nothing about tomorrow will make change come easier.
What does today look like?
We’re finding our footing in a new world—a world of walls we didn’t expect to see all day every day. A world with children underfoot who make it hard to hit the high bar we set for our careers. A world in which not getting bored requires an excessive amount of work.
How to boost your mental immunity
There’s a lot of talk right now about building up immunity to the coronavirus. That’s not in your control, but what you can do is build up is your mental immunity. Your emotional health is important. Here are a few things you can do to feel like your best self.
How are you practicing self-care?
Everyone’s talking about self-care, but what does that actually mean? Find time every single day to do something that makes you feel good. Even five minutes spent not thinking about COVID-19 can do wonders. Here are a few ways you can practice self-care.
Why now?
A long time ago I started a newsletter and it was going well. When a good friend told me how much it meant to her each time she got a copy, I stopped. It scared me to think my voice had power. For years I’ve been reconsidering the idea of sharing my knowledge with others. And now I’m doing it.
Anxiety and mindfulness in the dating world
People dealing with anxiety and depressive disorders often experience significant reduction in symptoms through mindfulness therapy. Mindfulness techniques are also used to decrease anxiety over future events, providing a break from stressful thoughts and allowing mental space for gaining perspective.
Mind-body connection: mindfulness techniques
Mindfulness has made the leap from millenniums-old Buddhist concept to mainstream psychotherapy technique, emerging as an evidence-based phenomenon. Mindfulness can relieve stress, lower blood pressure, improve sleep, alleviate addictive or undesirable behaviors and much more.
College blues: anxiety in a new environment
The transition from child to adult evokes a different set of feelings in parents than it does in children who are leaving the nest. Parents are learning to let go while young adults are learning to navigate a new world. Even the best-adjusted young adults can be apprehensive.
Moving through loss
Women experience the loss of pregnancy far more often than many people realize—about 20% of known pregnancies end in miscarriage. You never know when you will meet a sister who shares your pain. In reality, you meet them all the time.
Managing college when you’re managing ADHD
College students with ADHD often struggle to balance schoolwork with social life and self-care, but with a thoughtful approach that includes careful time management and a little support from the college resource center, students with ADHD can thrive.
There are many ways to approach anxiety
Anxiety is a common reason people seek support. There are many ways to approach treatment, including therapeutic exercises like visualization, mindful breathing, autogenic training, progressive muscle relaxation and guided imagery.
And breathe
There’s a reason they say “practice mindfulness” and not just “be mindful.” Focusing on today is hard. It takes work to stay in the present. So stop doing whatever it is you’re doing right now and take three deep, slow breaths in.
Chronic disorganization and adult ADHD
It’s hard to operate in today’s society and not be affected by all the entities vying for our attention. Easily losing focus is a well-known symptom of Adult ADHD, but there are others. Let’s take a look at another symptom that may require treatment.
Mental health for mom
No matter what age their children have grown to, mothers still have the highest hopes for their sons and daughters—and hang on to their concerns.
Single moms get the job done
Remember the days when the experts predicted children raised by single mothers would be disciplinary nightmares and grow up to be dysfunctional adults? They got it wrong.